Confidential, one to one work for people at HNW and UHNW levels whose brain has always run differently. Founders, CEOs, families and individuals. We work on you, your world, and the way the two interact.
Unhurried and discreet. Worldwide, by video or in person.
If you have ADHD or AuDHD, you already know the patterns. Starting things at the last minute. Avoiding certain tasks for weeks. A difficult email that takes the whole day down. Success didn't remove any of it.
What success did change is who you can talk to about it. You can't tell your team. Friends see the money and stop asking how you actually are. Family just want you to be less stressed.
So most people at your level manage it alone, through willpower and masking. That costs energy every single day, and nobody around you can see it happening.
Success removed the money problems. The life patterns are still there.
We work on two things at once. The everyday ADHD struggles, like focus, follow-through and the admin that piles up. And the patterns underneath that keep them stuck, like rejection sensitivity and perfectionism. Most coaching handles one or the other. Here you get both.
Starting things, staying on them, and actually finishing. We work on how you get from a pile of half-done projects to done.
Deadlines, the boring necessary tasks, and the days when there's too much at once. We build ways to handle them that fit how your brain works.
When criticism lands like a physical hit, decisions start being made to avoid the hit. We take the sting out, so your choices get cleaner.
The standard that got you here is now the thing stopping you finishing. We work out where excellence pays and where it only costs.
Years of appearing fine is exhausting, and it hides what you actually need. With me, you can stop performing.
The conversation you haven't had. The decision that's waited months. We find what's holding it in place, then release it.
Businesses, boards, family, advisors. We look at where your world creates friction for your brain, then remove it, hand it to someone else, or change it.
If you're still running a company, we work on it alongside the patterns, so progress in one doesn't get undone by the other. The decisions, the people, the direction.
Relationships, health, money habits, and energy. A brain like yours runs hot and needs recovery. This is coaching for the whole of it, not just the work.
Most coaching pages say the word confidential and mean a line in a contract. At your level, a line in a contract isn't enough. So here is what it means in practice.
I never name clients, and I never hint. Not in talks, not in marketing, not in conversation.
Nothing from our work appears anywhere. No case studies, no posts, no anonymised stories that people close to you could recognise.
Someone you trust can make the first enquiry for you. An assistant, a family office, an advisor. You don't need to explain anything to begin.
Contact and scheduling are handled directly between us, in whatever way suits you.
You'll notice there are no client names on this page. That's deliberate. There are public reviews elsewhere on this site, from founders and executives who chose to put their names to them.
The brain is the same. Your situation changes what it costs you. These are the people I most often work with.
You're still running the company, and the ADHD patterns make it harder than it needs to be. If the business itself is the main work, I also coach founders and executives specifically.
The company gave your days structure. Now it's sold, and without that structure the ADHD gets harder to manage. Most people are surprised by how hard that lands.
Wealth you steward rather than built, and a brain that struggles with the admin, the meetings and the expectations that come with it. Often with a family watching.
When people watch what you do, the masking load doubles. The work here is often about having one place where you don't perform at all.
I'm Phil. I'm AuDHD. I built and scaled my own business before I coached, so I know this from the inside, including the parts people don't say out loud.
My background is psychotherapy as well as coaching, and that matters here. Patterns like rejection sensitivity and perfectionism don't move because someone gives you a system. They move when someone understands how they were built, and works with you on both at once: the person and the world around them.
I'm accredited by the Association for Coaching UK, and I work with clients worldwide.
No forms and no automated follow up. It's two people talking, and it goes at your pace.
You get in touch, or someone you trust does it for you. A sentence is enough. You don't need to have worked out what you want yet.
Bring whatever you want to bring, or nothing at all. I'll tell you honestly whether I'm the right person, because sometimes I'm not, and I'd rather say so.
No chasing. If the answer is no, that's fine, and the conversation stays between us either way.
A confidential conversation with someone who has the same brain, understands the world you sit in, and won't ever talk about you.
No. I have a psychotherapy background and the work goes deeper than most coaching, but it is coaching. If what you need is therapy, I'll say so and help you find it.
No. Many of my clients are self identified or still exploring. We work with how your brain actually behaves, not with paperwork.
Yes, worldwide, usually by video. In person can be arranged. Time zones are workable.
Fees are discussed in the first conversation, because they depend on the level of involvement you want. There's no price pressure in that conversation and no obligation after it.
